Teaching self-advocacy skills

Teaching children how to speak up for themselves is a valuable skill that can help them feel more confident and in control. Children need support to develop the confidence and ability to express their needs, rights, and preferences. Here are some ways you can help your child become a self-advocate:

Communication skills

Encourage your child to share their thoughts and feelings clearly. Help them practice listening to others, speaking confidently, and using “I” statements like “I need help with…” to communicate what they need.

Role-playing

Try role-playing different situations they might face at school or with their friends. This helps them practice asking for help, sharing their concerns, or telling others what they need.

Set goals together

Work with your child to set achievable goals related to self-advocacy. These could be things like speaking to a teacher about needing more time on assignments or asking a friend for support in a group activity. Celebrate their progress as they achieve these goals.

Model advocacy

Show your child how to advocate by doing it yourself. Whether it’s talking with their school about their needs or discussing your needs with others, your actions can provide a powerful example.

Encourage participation in meetings

If possible, let your child join meetings with teachers or support staff where their learning plan or accommodations are discussed. This gives them a chance to practice self-advocacy and helps them learn how to explain their needs to others.